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So I need some help understanding this. When I lost my virginity, I only lost it because I didn’t want to get bashed because the guy was a girl basher. I continually said no until I said fuck it. I didn’t want it to happen. That doesn’t count as rape because I technically gave consent right?

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no, you didn’t consent. consent is a continuous, enthusiastic ‘yes’. feeling pressured into it is in no way consent. i’m so sorry that happened to you

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If you say no multiple times and he continue is rape. It doesn’t matter if you say yes at the end. That is coercion and it’s not right.
I send you big big hugs. You did nothing wrong. You were scared and that is normal.

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It sounds like going to counseling may be good for you to talk about this. If you’re trying to find a legal answer then you should consider consulting a lawyer or you can make the report to the police.

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If you continually said no he should have respected it, then you eventually said yes. He only got it because he pushed, so it is at least coercive. I can see why your friends are concerned. Hope you are well.

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If you gold the guys yes you will do it then your consenting to haveing sex

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no baby, that sh** is rape.

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Needing more details..... 
it sounds like it is rape but you also agreed to it...? I’m confused

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