Unlearn what you had to learn ?

Do you have a moments when you think to yourself that when it comes to possibly having a new relationship that you have to unlearn all of the bad things that you’ve had to deal with when it comes to people and how they could talk to you and treat you?

And most likely you get scared to even talk to anybody because you don’t know if they’re going to pull the same thing

why am I getting this feeling like that lately ever since I began talking to some new guys and sometimes I just feel like I have to unlearn all the bad things that I’ve learned about people to accept new people into my life.