I’m not really an expert when it comes to dating, but idk. I feel like this is weird.

I’ve been talking to this guy for 6 months.

We met a month ago and he asked me out. He says he loves me. He started saying that a few days ago.

The thing is, he likes to buy me things. And every time I say thank you or if I ever say I’m sorry about anything, he always says that I need to stop saying sorry (it makes me feel like I’m annoying him). And tells me to not thank him. I feel like he’s annoyed when I say thank you or I’m sorry.

He also never texts me good night. Today, he has sent 3 texts. That’s it.

My late husband had this habit of texting me every hour or so. (Unless he was sleeping or working or near me.) He always said good morning and good night when him and I were dating. It’s been a few years and I’m ready to find someone. LH wouldn’t want me to stay alone and if it were the other way around, I wouldn’t want him to be alone either. But I also don’t want to settle.

I know I shouldn’t compare, which is why I’m asking here if that’s normal in a relationship. And if it’s ok for me to feel weird about it?

Also, he has been driving another coworker around for work (he lives 3 hours away) and said that she’s started rumors at work that him and her are together. At this point I kinda feel like I should break up with him. But maybe I’m being irrational? (I am on the autism spectrum)

He also never really tells me much of how his days go. Like I’ll ask him and he’ll seem to ignore the question.