I need to rant

OK so Im 22 and I have a 2 year old little boy, me and my fiance decided to start trying for baby no.2, so like a week after my little ones birthday which was 6th January so a few weeks ago, I stopped taking my pill and I got my period 3 days later after not having one for like 6 months, and according to this app I ovulated yesterday so we did the deed and now all I'm thinking about is pregnancy and getting pregnant and when I can take tests, it's only the first month of trying but we got pregnant with my son without even trying, he was a happy accident, we didn't use any kind of contraception back then and we aren't using any now, so I guess what I wanna know is how do I try not focus on it so much and count down the days till I can test and also how I can not worry about it not happening? Thanks