He told me finally the truth why he won’t go down!

So we were about to have sex and then I asked him to eat me out and he said no and just puts it in it feels good I let him keep going and yes he lasted much longer today but okay he said he doesn’t think it’s necessary to eat a women out during sex.I told him my ex always did that to me all the time and that my ex always ate me out that my ex was the first one to ever eat me out and did it all the time. And that my ex did sex to me all the time even on a chair we fucked and on top of a clothing dresser. But my husband yes we are married wants me to suck his dick all the time. We are married almost for two years and dated for four years he just ate my pussy like once or twice during those 4 years we dated. I bought a tongue toy and it broke from using it so much but I wish my husband could just open my legs and go down on me before going inside. Sex at the begging was almost every day twice a day now once a week and it seems like now he is trying we had sex last night and he lasted a very long time it felt good but I want to be ready before he goes in complete aroused wet before he goes in.and yes I’m so fucking dumb for not asking him this before I asked him also months ago to go down and he just said I’ve done that a lot already like really no you didn’t. I just told him that’s a lie.