Children with men who don't help

Ladies, if you have had a child with a man who doesn't help. And then went onto have more kids with him

What is the reason? Just curious cause I see people say this all the time. But I am too afraid to ask on anyone's post.

So I am asking here, if you have multiple kids with a guy (husband, boyfriend, etc) who never helps you with the kids. If he was like that from the start and it bothered you. Why did you choose to have more kids with him?