After being on Glow it’s clear there are a lot of things couples need to discuss before getting married. We plan to go to premarital counseling but I’ve come up with a list of things we should be on the same page with. Can anyone think of anything else?

1. Porn. Although it’s not an issue, I never want it to be an issue.

2. Health insurance. It may sound nuts but a woman posted on here that her DH refuses to add her to his health insurance through his job.

3. Exes. I don’t want us to be comparing our relationship to any others we’ve had in the past.

4. What happens if one of us loses their sex drive? What if one of us loses our ability to have sex?

5. We come first for each other and we work as a team to take care of our kids.

6. What happens if our parents need to live with us?

7. What will our policy be about giving money to others? I think we need to talk to each other if it’s over a certain amount.

8. Bank accounts (joint versus separate)

9. Kids and taking care of the kids.

10. It should be clear we won’t ever invite others into the marriage bed.