So my SO and I aren’t that affectionate anymore but I want that to change been together for 10 years. The only time he comes up to me is when he wants to feel up on me like straight away. No genuine hugs or kisses just sexual touching and I’m fucking tired of it! I also always tell him how I feel about it and he tells me I should be glad he’s still wanting to feel up on me and now I’m thinking wtf does that even mean???

Just had baby numb.3 and a bit over weight and now that I think about it maybe he’s referring to that. Idk maybe I’m over thinking what he said, but I don’t feel the loved at all!