Do you think it's right to put terms and conditions on your S.O. to have another baby?

I've been ready to have another baby for a while now and my husband is putting terms and conditions on me saying if I do this or that it'll happen but I feel it's wrong if he truly loves me. wouldn't he just have another baby with me? He's said this before and I've done them but nothing ever happens I am hurt and heartbroken idk what to do I feel hopeless and like I have zero control we have one daughter and all I want is two kids is it really so much to have one more? I just need some support and advice on this situation. I feel like I am in complete despair and I am depressed.😭😭💔