Spoiling him in bed

This pregnancy has been quite a bit different compared to my last one. I haven’t been in the mood for sex. (Last time, I was in the mood basically all the time)!

I’ve felt so bad for my husband. He’s tried initiating a few times and it never went anywhere. He ended up telling me to just let him know when I’m feeling up to it. He’s been super patient and well…I’ve made a total 180 😂 I’m ready to go! Simply put, I want to spoil him and reward the patience 😂

I’m not much of an initiator though. I usually prefer he take the lead, but I’d like to change that up and I’m looking to “go big”! Any advice?