So how does everyone BD as much as they do and still keep it sexy?? My husband and I got in a little argument about planning sex or just letting it come naturally. We have a 2 year old who loves to sleep with us and stopped taking naps so of course it's more on the planned side. But the other night I mentioned we needed to do it bc I was in my fertile window. I only said it bc him and his best friend were playing video games on and off all day and when it came time to spend time with me he chose his friend. (It sounds worse than how it was)So I said you gotta give me 20minutes I'm in my window... obviously that's not sexy. He felt like a piece of meat I guess🤣 I guess my question is how do I make it sexy and more natural when we need to do it more often than the norm??

Note: I have no problem with him spending time with his friend, he's family. The argument was so silly and it blew up for no reason. We are good now. I just want to avoid another argument and just make a baby🤣