I used to talk to this guy 4 years ago and he had a dominance and submission kink. I went back onto an online dating app a few nights ago and he was on it and started texting me. He kept telling me how I had so much potential and how I was being rude. I made it clear that I didn’t wanna be involved in this Dom and sub thing but he can’t take it. I started to stick up for myself and he said “Shut up with your drama”. He calls me baby or sweetheart all of the time and it makes me uncomfortable. I had an assignment to do last night and he was telling me to ‘hurry my sexy ass up’. He also said I had no sex drive anymore because apparently the last time we talked I was much more adventurous which is untrue. I’ve never done anything for him. I just remember he asked me to take a black sharpie and write his name all over my naked body which I didn’t do by the way. He said I was ‘all over him’. I don’t know where he’s getting these things from. If I don’t reply, he’ll send another message. He said I’ve ‘lost my fire’ and told me that all of my confidence is gone. He’ll get like.. really controlling sometimes and defensive. What do you make of this?