Edit: I want to clarify. I feel disrespected on both parts. I get that he was my man and it was his job to do right by me but this is a woman I became friends with through him. I probably should've added that part. So I see it as they are both fucked up because of what they did! And @J... Was your rude comment necessary? Absolutely not!! Tf do you mean leave her alone? Did you miss the part where I said she called me attempting to assure me that they were only friends but he had shown text messages saying otherwise? Maybe she doesn't owe me anything but if she could contact me, I don't see why my wanting to contact her was so bad. Of course I didn't. All I said was that I wanted to🤦‍♀️. I think y'all are also missing the part where I am and did hold him completely accountable but don't fake the funk in my face. Hang out with me. Hang out with my kids. Get close to me and all the while fucked my fiancé behind my back! I blame him more than her but I still feel that she is at fault as well. She's not innocent in my eyes.

I've officially called off my engagement (was due to get married in April) and my now ex-fiance has this friend. Female friend. I'm not the type of woman who has an issue with men and women being friends. It is very possible but there have to be some boundaries. I have male friends that I 100% respect and don't see as anything other than friends.

Anyway, 3 months ago I found out he slept with this "friend" 3 months prior. So 6 months ago as of today. I was extremely upset initially and I decided to forgive him. Yes, he cheated when he had sex with her. As part of our agreement, HE said he was going to cut her off because per his words she was more interested in being something more and he claims all he wanted was a friendship.

About a month ago, I found out (btw me finding out all information is because he slipped up and told on himself!!) that he got back in contact with her less than 24 hours after he promised he'd cut contact with her! He told her that we weren't engaged anymore. A month ago she contacted me telling me that he told her that we were no longer together and she tried to reassure me that they were only friends YET he showed me text messages where she was asking him to come over and other times she wanted sex! Yeah some friend!

I took a step back for a few weeks and when he and I saw each other today, I simply asked "Have you been in contact with XYZ?" He paused and said yes. I became so infuriated but stayed calm. I told him that I am done!!

Few hours later a friend discovered him on FB Dating and apparently if the profile is new it will say "Just Joined" but per her words it didn't say that so I guess it's been up for a while. Instead of calling him or going to his place (not living together). I simply blocked him from everything! Social media, his number, work number, email, and LinkedIn 🤣.

I want so badly to reach out to his so called friend and give her a piece of my damn mind! Have some self respect! He was only running to her (in the last 90days) whenever we had a disagreement over anything. All the while I didn't know he was running to her. I thought he was just cooling off for a few days.

But then I figure what good will it do to contact her? So I haven't!! But I sure as hell want to.