Ttc after miscarriage - does it ever get easier?

Question

Me and my husband suffered a miscarriage in July last year after trying for 7 months and have been ttc again since sep/Oct ... I have got my period again today and it still hurts just as much as it did that day I lost my baby .... every month it is like I’m living through my miscarriage and that loss over again .... will it ever get easier? 😭 my anxiety is through the roof and I just feel so empty and heartbroken 💔

Answer

It honestly never gets easier. Seeing all the negatives just crushes your sole. I felt like a huge failure for not being able to do what a lot of people can. I felt so jealous that I couldn’t even get one and two girls I went to school with were already at baby #4. Finally I got tired of the pain, found someone and made them listen to me. I’m now 12 weeks with my many times over rainbow. Having so many miscarriages back to back caused me to have difficulty connecting to my current pregnancy. For a second it felt like I didn’t even want it because “I knew how it was going to end” it was made worse by the fact I had had a miscarriage two cycles before.

Ttc after miscarriage - does it ever get easier?

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