So I feel like an ass but at the same time I am annoyed.

Long rant.

So valentine's Day was yesterday. My husband and I are inconsistent how we celebrate. This year I got him a card and I bought chocolates. He said he wasn't interested in chocolates and I could eat them. I also bought his Mother gifts and weeks ago I said we should visit her for the day. He was really not interested in seeing his Mom.

I asked him what he wanted to do and he said finish the trim in the bathroom. We had a quiet morning of playing with our son and my husband playing on his phone and interacting with us a little. I was able to vacuum and do some small chores. At 11 I put my son down for a nap and my husband napped to. My son wakes up at 12 and my husband stays asleep until 1ish and I have to wake him to help me because I need too many hands and my son is clingy.

While I am feeding my son lunch my husband starts cutting cheese and I asked what is he making? Grill cheese. I asked him to make me one too. He kind of rolled his eyes. He made me a delicious grilled cheese. He did eat with us.

Afterwards I did dishes and played with my son until 4ish when I put him down for another nap. My husband played and layed in bed with us again.

After that nap I started making dinner. I had dinner ready for 630ish. My husband decided to take our dog out and smoke weed. So just I and my son had dinner alone.

We did a bath for our son and then I had to bathe our dog and I showered since I was all hot and water sprayed. My husband hates to bathe our dog and he has to be bathed for medical reasons. Afterwards I put my son down for bed. Did dishes, folded laundry and did a load of towels.

I layed down in bed at 10 and My husband makes himself a plate of dinner. My dog woke our son up and it took me until 12 to get him back to sleep. I had to pump and was ready for bed at 1am.

My husband starts rubbing my arm and I know he wants sex. I told him I wasn't in the mood.I told him he basically he didn't do anything all day. He forgot to wish me a happy Valentine's day. Didn't eat dinner with us and made me feel like a burden to ask him to make me lunch. I am not in the mood. He ended up getting up and sleeping in our basement/den.

I know he was expecting sex he was talking about it on and off all day. But I didn't feel like extending myself. Like I am tired and he just bummed around all day doing nothing. I know I use sex as a currency. Like if he doesn't do things around the house I just don't feel like I want to have sex. I have low libido anyways and I sometimes have to force myself to be in the Mood.

I'm just annoyed with him being lazy and not being present with me during the day.

End rant.