I experienced my first sub drop last night, and I’ve also be extremely stressed due to work.

As some of you may have seen in another post, my dom slapped me during a scene and it scared me.

I ended up confiding in my mom about it. I told her there was no malice, he didn’t mean to actually scare or hurt me, things just got out of hand.

My moms is not into bdsm and does not understand it. I tried to explain is was my idea to be rough. I explain he felt terrible and didn’t mean to actually hurt or scare me.

I told her because I was very upset in the drop and she could tell.

She now think my boyfriend is abusive and that its a red flag, along with his road rage.

He does actually have road rage, he just yells and swears, I do the exact same thing.

What can I do to prove he’s a good guy and NOT abusive. We agreed it wouldn’t happen again, and I do plan not to talk about this again with her.

My boyfriend is the nicest man I’ve met, and gets along with my brother, who isn’t very social.