I’m sure lots of women can relate or maybe I’m just doing something wrong. I always thought that when I had kids my marriage wouldn’t be affected by it. We have lost all intimacy no romance it’s like we’re roommates I feel like at this point. It saddens me because in two weeks we make 17 years together and I feel like there’s no love right now. I’m sure it’s a phase that happens to a lot of couples after having kids because we’re just exhausted and we’re trying to figure out how we involve each other daily when it’s just super crazy right now with twin toddlers. I’m blaming us both for neglecting each other. Any tips? Has anyone else gone through this.

I should also add we have not done date night since our girls were born 15 months ago. We don’t live near family so it’s hard but I believe there ways we can do date night at home