Now, not to toot my own horn, but I can cook!! He honestly expects me to cook every night. I try and fulfill it. When I do cook though, he silently eats it and goes back to whatever he was doing before. For example, valentines dinner was lobster, filet, spinach and mashed potatoes. He didn’t want the lobster so I made him a crab cake instead. Not easy in a 2 bdr apt! Today, lobster Mac and cheese for lunch and homemade chic fila sandwiches. All 3 of those meals, he said NOTHING. I have to ask. “Is it good?!” He said “mhmm” or critiques it. I know when its okay food and I know when it’s not. These meals were amazing. I’m so tired of it. I’m not your freaking personal chef.

Does anyone else deal with this issue?

I am very much the let me show you I love you person. Less physical touch love. (He is the opposite so I know this can be an issue)

Am I being a dick? 😭🥲