Giving up birth plan?

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Since I was a kid I’ve always wanted a home birth. I’ve watched so many documentaries and birth vlogs and I just think a home birth is right for me for many personal reasons. My husband is 100% against it. Both his mom and step mom had emergency c-sections so I get where he is coming from. We are normally able to compromise fairly easily but this is something we just can’t settle on. I’ve sent him tons of information that he is read but he is not budging. I’ve also tried to understand his point of view and that he doesn’t want anything to happen to me or our son but I’m just so stuck on home birth I feel like we won’t be able to reach a mutual decision. We also just moved 5 minutes away from the hospital so I just am struggling. I only have a few more weeks to ”decide” because at my next midwife appointment they want to choose the birth place.. The midwives have hospital privileges so I can still have her at the hospital but I just don’t want to. I’ve always just pictured myself labouring and delivering at home.

Any advice? Anyone else in a similar position?

EDIT: not looking to debate hospital vs home birth, looking for ways to compromise with my husband on our birth plan.