We are snowed in for the past few days and tensions are running high. Today I’m extremely overwhelmed. My husband basically woke up starting shit which put me in a bad mood, I deep cleaned the place by myself (10AM-3PM), all while our 4 yo is pretty much stuck to my hip... I even cooked a full dinner... all while 28 weeks pregnant, so when I say I’m tired, I’m REALLY tired.. my husband keeps walking In and out the patio door which is connect to the living room and it’s 13 degrees outside! Plus there’s been power outages and ours could go out at any moment but here he is letting all the damn heat out. It’s supposed to start snowing again so instead of just looking out of the window he goes and opens the door AGAIN just t to see if it’s snowing. This time I asked him to please close the door!

He then gets an attitude and I can just feel his anger... after a few minutes I asked him to hand my a blanket and he threw it at my fucking face 🥴 when I tell you I want to punch him in the face so bad it hurts not to. I asked him wtf is wrong with him and he just ignores me...

I normally let him do the dumb shit he does bc I don’t like to nag and he gets super defensive when I call him out. Part of the reason I cleaned up by myself today is bc he does things like put Tupperware in the pots and pans cabinet or whatever, put underwear In the shirt drawer, or put cold juice in the pantry... like he just doesn’t think...

anyway, I’m venting bc I can’t believe he’s now throwing shit at my face and I don’t get a thank you for cleaning and making dinner.

He didn’t apologize or anything and now I’m in bed by myself and feeling down. Tomorrow is another day snowed in. I don’t even want to talk to him and wish I could go for a drive right about now.