Is it weird that I wany to live with my boyfriend?

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We go to college in different cities but right now we are home because of covid. And we'll be home till October soo... it's nice opportunity to live together for a few months and I think it's possible even though we don't have any income other than scholarships. Btw i'm 19 and he's 21 soon.
But am I too young? Or am I just fantasizing too much?

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How are you going to live together if you don’t have any income? Like the other comments have said, it’s normal to want to, but it doesn’t seem practical to do so for you rn. It also can seem fun initially, but living with someone can bring a lot more into a relationship, like maturity, cleaning habits, expectations, and how you like to spend your free time.

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I think it’s normal to want to live with your boyfriend but just be ready for the reality that it’s not sunshine and rainbows lol

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Also I’d add - you’re going from being long distance to wanting to live together. I’ve seen a lot of relationships end that way. Living with someone can be a reality shock and really shows you how compatible you are with someone. My fiancé actually tried this with his ex gf when he was your bf’s age and his ex was your age- they’d been dating for a few years but long distance, he was active duty marines at the time so they’d rarely actually been together for long periods of time. When he finished the active duty portion of his contract, they decided to move in together (and moved to my state). They didn’t last 6 months. From what my fiancé said, it was over well before that, it was more so they were just stuck living together at that point. After 2 months they didn’t even sleep in the same bed, weren’t really having sex, just kind of cohabited. 
Living with someone kind of rushes you out of that honeymoon phase real quick, especially if you’re not compatible. If you are it can be great - but often even if you’re great together, there’s still going to be that learning curve and establishing those expectations of each other and your individual responsibilities to keep home life flowing smoothly.

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Are you moving into a parents house together? Cause if not then you are 100000000000% fantasizing. I’m living with mine and I make $14.25 an hour. Can barely afford 1/3 of the rent. It isn’t all fun and games. It’s stressful and a lot of work.

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Well  I moved out with my now husband at 17 he was 19, it all depends on both your level of maturity and economic standing,  sharing bills will help though

Is it weird that I wany to live with my boyfriend?

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