Early miscarriage and now ectopic:(

Just looking for success stories or positivity.

I had a confirmed miscarriage that passed naturally early Jan and yesterday I was rushed into emergency surgery for an ectopic pregnancy.

I just feel lost and hopeless and so hurt especially now I know I can grow a baby but not in the right place unfortunately.

Also just want to say to people I only found out after a bit of back pain one day and brown on and off spotting which many websites say is normal. I went in and had a scan for my own safety and I just want people to do the same as mine was caught hours before rupture. We know our bodies and I've now learnt that googling for days and thinking it's fine is not the best option! Get it checked :)

Xx