what whould i do

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me & my child father still dont live together & its annoying we been together for 5 years i have a 8 month daughter with a son on the way .. one day he says he looking for apartments building his credit etc then next min he says its not best for us right now cuz we fight a lot .. im jus starting to feel we have no future & hes being immature .. is there a time limit or should I give it another year or so ? i see no reason we not under the same roof if we a family now he claims he is stressed & overwhelmed wit alot too but idk anymore

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You sound like you’ve given it enough time. Said it yourself. He’s immature. Sounds like a dead beat who doesn’t want to commit or take full responsibility 🤷🏼‍♀️

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5 years and 2 kids is PLENTY of time. He is not going to commit. You need to either accept him as a dead beat who will never commit, or move on and build your life on your own.

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It’s been five years... don’t waste another five years waiting on something that may never happen.

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5 years and 2 kids is a long time. Sounds like he just dont want too

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I went through this for a solid year. It almost broke us, and in some ways it has even still. There is a respect I just can't have for my partner due to this shit show.
Know when it is time to call it quits.

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It kind of sounds like he doesn’t want to fully commit and take on the responsibility all the way if that makes sense. I’d talk to him

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Are you sure you are not a mistress he is hiding ? Sounds weird he doesn’t want to move in with you after 2 kids ...

what whould i do

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