In separation / how to do a gender reveal

China

Hi everyone! I’m at a loss right now about how to do my gender reveal. Baby daddy and I aren’t really speaking at the moment. I really want to do a gender reveal. My mom thinks I should invite his family and him but I just don’t see it being necessary since he’s practically left me alone these past four months. What do you guys think?? Is it mean if I don’t want his family there? I never go to their family functions because he doesn’t take me so I just feel like they don’t need to be at mine!

Also his brothers and cousins have lied about sleeping with me so I just don’t like his family. What should I do :(?

P.s. I fought on the phone with his sister the day before we told my family and she threatened to beat me up so I don’t have good feelings towards them. They have him out drinking and partying which is why he’s not here right now. (I’m trying to keep healthy boundaries)