Is it rude to ask if pregnancy was planned?

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I'm 15 weeks and I just started to announce baby #3. It's really bothering me the amount of friends, co workers, and family that ask if this baby was planned. Not many people know we were TTC for 2 years so I might be more sensitive to this, but I feel like this is something you just shouldn't ask people.

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It’s rude. A) why does it matter at all? And B) it’s no ones fucking business lol.

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We're trying for our 5th & I'm already prepared for 'was it planned or your mad ' but do you know what it ain't none of their business it's up to me & my hubby how many kids we have x

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It's rude and an invasion if privacy, I don't care who asks. It's between you and your partner, but that is just my opinion.

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It depends on who asked. Coworkers/acquaintances they have no business asking me that. But I wouldn’t feel bad if my mom or sister asked.

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Rude. I feel bad that people will question this baby being planned because it’s baby #3 in the middle of a pandemic. But my husband and I knew we wanted at least 3 more likely 4 kids. No one else has a say. Maybe turn it around and ask them how their sex life is so they see how rude it is 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Rude unless it's like your best friend or mom and they have reason to suspect it's a surprise. I may ask someone like my best friend. A coworker or casual friend/aquaintence, absolutely not.

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Rude

Is it rude to ask if pregnancy was planned?

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