If you’ve gotten divorced...

One of my closest friends found out something terrible (and unforgivable) about her husband. She immediately took her kids out of her house and all moved back in with her parents until she gets the next steps figured out. Anyway, if you’ve been through a divorce, what is something a friend has said to you or done for you that really stuck out in your mind? Or what is something you WISH a friend had said to you or done for you during that time? I’m trying to avoid simply saying “I’m here for you if you need anything.” Because I always feels like that puts the responsibility on her where I’d like to take some of the burden of support off of her.