IVF Retrieval and over 40y/o

Hello! I am 41, and just did a cycle of

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> (menopur/Fostimon, retrieval on day 12.)

When I called to see how many eggs retrieved and so on, the embryologist said:

“Well, 6 were fertilized, but we don’t know if any at all will take given your age. Older eggs use more energy and die out sooner. So we’ll keep checking and letting you know”

:( It made me sad.

So for any over forty ladies here, I wanna hear from you:

how’d it go

how many fertilized

how many made it to day 5

did you do PGT

how many came back

how many rounds etc.

I know every body is different etc etc. But any encouragement would be nice to hear round about now.