How to turn on my husband?

I've recently starting thinking about my sex life and the things I bring into that relationship and I've realized I'm falling short.

I was sexually abused and grew up in a shame culture about sex so I feel very shy and embarrassed when we first start sex, which I know isn't a turn on.

I want to try and push myself and make things more enjoyable for him, what're some good ways to initiate/ foreplay for him?