Hurtful dinner table discussion

Last night really really crushed me. My bf dad kept talking about how michelle Obama looks like a man and is a man bc of a “bulge” he saw. And the way he really said it and believed it just really hurt me, because in the past my bf has made comments to me about “black” girls being really masculine and ugly .. ive always wondered if he thinks so bad about my “race” why is he even with me... idk it’s been 5 years. It just crushed my soul last night, bcoz my bf said yes there’s lots of masculine black girls. I am short (5’3 and a half) and skinny yet still have boobs and an hourglass. My skin tone is lighter than majority of black peoples. And my hair is long and straight, now my bf claims I BEAT his theories, but it still hurts bcoz he considers me THAT race.