Do I sound asexual?

I don’t desire sex with strangers, rarely I do very occasionally someone turns me on

I started dating someone, we didn’t get on that well but he was kinda hot. I would get super turned on and think about sex but when it would come to having sex, I wouldn’t have a ‘omg fuck me now urge’ it was subtle. I enjoy the touching and stuff and kissing but when his penis goes in I just get turned off.

I am currently attracted to my male friend and I get naughty thoughts when we’re around but again not ‘ong fuck me now feeling.’ I feel aroused talking to him and I can’t help look at his body. But some days I’m not attracted and I worry I’ll get turned off during sex and won’t enjoy it like most. Is this just sexual anxiety?

I feel I have a mismatch with mental and physical arousal. I hope just not found the right person. I don’t really meet many guys and sex drive low during pandemic