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Back pain and crying with frustration

Carrie
My back.hurts so bad :-( I ask my boyfriend to rub out one of the knots in my lower back so I can walk normally and he starts bitching how I never rub his back... which is a lie, im just not strong enough and he complains everytime I do until i get the stupid vibrating massager and use that on his back(which hurts my already messed up wrists) so i cant walk and my boyfriend is being a jerk and to top.it all off I'm an emotional wreck.today so.i.just start bawling when he.refuses to.rub my back and now he's trying to.act all nice.... but still.wont rub my back :(
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Ke

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Try a chiropractor or getting a massage! That's not right that he's being a jerk, but if he's not going to help you, help yourself. Don't wait for him! Feel better 

Sh

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He's a jerk! Your carrying his child it's the least he can do instead of saying what you don't do for him. He's selfish and needs to grow up!!!!

De

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I don't even have to ask to get a back rub from my fiancé. It would make me angry if he thought he has any right to complain! Don't ask him anymore, instead go to a chiropractor (if you have insurance) or ask a friend. Show him you're fine without him and he'll change his attitude to "no wait sorry" if he's a real man. A real man wants to be wanted and won't like seeing you get your needs met elsewhere.

La

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Heating pad or hot shower with the water massaging your low back. It works! Sorry your guy is being such a jerk about it. :(

Do

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So sorry hunny, this is such a not fun thing to have happen. If you can, go to a massage school, the prices are very low, and you can request a more experienced student who can do pregnancy massage. And if at any time you are uncomfortable, you can have them stop. They even have special pillows/bolsters for pregnancy.
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