What do you consider too soon ?

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To do anything semi sexual with a guy 
Like having him give you head because I’m not having sex with him yet I don’t want too look loose or easy ? :)

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Whatever you are comfortable with

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I mean, loose or easy are inherently misogynistic ideas- I would wait until you really want to. 
Basically, true self respect would be the most liberating thing. 
When u wanna suk dik, suk the dik. You don't wanna? You don't have to. You have no obligation but to yourself. It is okay for you to have desire and to follow that feeling when you feel ready. 
I've only had sex on a first date once, and I mean, we were flirting and talking for months before the date. 
There's no rule of standard for how long it takes to bond & feel comfortable with someone.

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I had sex on my 3rd date with my current bf 🤷🏻 after about 2 weeks of knowing him irl

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It doesn’t matter what one person thinks, it’s what you think it’s too soon. I’ve been in multiple situations myself where I’ve not knowing the person and they were complete stranger and it took me a month and a half to kiss them in another month and a half to have sex with them, my current partner I’ve actually known him 20 years, and things happen very quickly because I knew him so well. I had another ex that he chased after me for nine months before I even agreed to date it. It’s different for every person. I’ve done the Rushed into things and I had sex quickly And I’ve done the￼ make them wait. It’s different with every situation, and it’s what you are comfortable with and what you feel you are ready for. Some people wait to have sex until marriage, not everyone does, some people do the 90 day rule, some people do the third date rule but you need to figure out for yourself what you are comfortable with and what you are ready for. We need to have boundaries set and either if you’re not ready for it keep things public, I don’t go back to his place or have him go back to your place etc. if you’re not ready to go there. Everyone knows that Netflix and chill means sex. If you aren’t ready for that type of situation keep it public, going to the park, going to a restaurant, that type of thing. Just avoid putting yourself in that kind of situation. But if he makes you feel guilty or tries to manipulate you into doing something you’re not ready for, then he’s not the person for you. Or keep things do you read it and not send each other naked pictures or anything like that because that just let you know when entices him that you want to do more when you are ready for it. You do what is right for you and that’s the bottom line. ￼￼

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Whenever youre ready. My husband and i banged the first night we met because we hit it off so well 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I had to love someone before I had sex and thats only happened twice (the first time I'm not counting because penetration did not happen PERIOD) but the 2nd time it was with my husband who was my boyfriend at the time

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I started having sex with my SO I think 3 months after our relationship started? 
I would go according to what you feel comfortable doing rather than a time line or how you think it would make you look. Good luck

What do you consider too soon ?

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