Weaning baby

My baby is 11 months now, so it’s required I go back to work now, as a single mom of two under two, my son is 2 and my baby will be one soon, it’s just gonna be added stress, working, getti him to school and her to daycare without a vehicle or money for cabs, and all while trying to pump because I can barely even pump more then a ounce lately.. my baby girl breastfeeds like 5-6 times a day with meals and water or juice sometimes.. but anyways just needed an explanation on hey I was weening before getting judged, I’m also looking for tips on how to ween her? She will refuse a bottle and formula, do I need to be consistent? Is there bottles that are more boob like? Best site to shop for accessories to help ween?