How TF do I deal with this?!

So, am I the only only one that has this problem?

When my partner tries to initiate sex, my vagina and my inner thighs gets EXTREMELY ticklish if he touches it, tries oral or every BREATHES on or around that area. And I get this creepy feeling. Like a stranger is touching me. I hate it. This started when our relationship started to wane and I got pregnant. Almost 3 years later and it’s still happening. We broke up for a year and I got with other men in that time and this was never an issue with them.

Wtf is going on? We never have sex because of this feeling. We argue a lot about sex and I just want to be able to enjoy like he does and want it like he does.

I thought we should break up because it’s not fair that I can’t give him what he deserves because I can’t get past this??

Has anyone else had this before and gotten past it? What is this? Or have you broken up because of it? I don’t want to leave my partner and break up my family JUST because of sex but we’re still young and I don’t t want to waste our lives with shitty sex for the rest of our lives. Is this a mental block? Not being turned on enough (he usually goes straight for my vagina when he does foreplay which I HATE, I feel like he rushes it too much.), is it because I’m not sexually attracted to him anymore ( I thought this was the issue).

Help ME?!? I also don’t like it when he smacks my butt or anything like that, I get really agitated. Like it almost feels wrong? Wtf is wrong with me??