Ok this is a major rant! Please be nice

So my husband isn’t the most helpful around the house. He works and he makes dinner most nights but I’m the main person that looks after our daughter and I do all other house work, cleaning, laundry, hoovering. I usually work but I was made redundant on New Year’s eve and 3 days later found out I was pregnant so now struggling to get hired. I enjoy working, I went back to work when my daughter was 4 months old cause I just need to be doing something, plus we need the money so I’m happy to work.

Anyway, so every night I do the bedtime routine with our 2 year old. He rarely helps with any of it. Today he was golfing this morning then went to a friends house for a few drinks and I dropped off my daughter to play with their daughter for the last hour of his visit. While she was away I did laundry, hoovered, did dishes and then put dinner on before I picked them up. After dinner we all went out for a walk and as soon as we came home I started on the bedtime routine while my husband sat on the couch on his phone. While I was getting milk for my daughter I asked if he could go do her teeth with her to which he replied “hell no”. I was honestly so surprised! I know he doesn’t like to help but I couldn’t believe he replied that way, so I went and did it. After I mentioned to him he said “well what were you doing”. I’m so mad! Like sooooo mad! Maybe I’m over reacting but I don’t understand what goes through his head. He has done absolutely NOTHING around the house today or for me and my daughter and that was how he reacted after me asking for help.

I get he works through the week, he works Tuesday-Friday 6-3 so ok its a long day but he just thinks because he works he should get freer time when he wants. He doesn’t understand looking after our daughter is a full time job PLUS I’m pregnant so I’m more tired than usual.

Please be nice in your replies but am I overreacting or am I right to be pissed off about this. This isn’t a one off, this sort of thing happens a lot and when I mention it he throws in my face that I don’t work.