Will he finally leave her now?
I went away with my kids this weekend and my husband stayed behind. I know he’s been having an emotional affair with another woman. I took our home laptop with me to the trip and all his iMessages came through the laptop. He was texting this girl telling her about his hang out with his cousin and then she asked him to hang out and he said “I don’t want to have sex” and the girl told him “we only had sex once” and he said “yes but everytime I come over. We end up messing around” and then she seemed angry so my husband offered to have breakfast with her in the morning but she told him she had work at 9am so she was only free before then. So then my husband decided to drive to her house at 1:00am and he tells he’ll sleep over til this morning.
I called him this morning to scope where he was at and he was acting very awkward. Sure enough the messaged came from her where she tells him “You were hot last night” so sure enough they had sex again. He slept over her apartment and literally left as I called him which explains why he kept asking me “how far from home I was”
I know I should be leaving but it’s very complicated financially and because of our kids and COVID not being fully over on top. From knowing my husband, I know he’s feeling guilty for sleeping with her but I’m not sure if this guilt is enough from cutting her off. Without passing judgment to my questions (there’s more to this story) what do you guys think will happen? Since he was planning on not seeing her to avoid having sex, will he now actually ignore now that he’s slept with her a second time?
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