Do you trust your partner or not

Question

So most of you are going to say I have trust issues and that I should see a therapist and I’m not ready for a relationship. Honestly never been in a relationship before but I know it’s because you never know who the other guy is talking to. NEVER. Like I’ve read and seen so many stories about other girls or people finding out that the person they’re talking to was seeing another person. Other stories about happily married couples relationship being ruined because there was another person involved. 
I feel like I can be ready for a relationship because I do feel that after a certain amount of time I can be willing to trust the guy. I know communicating with the guy is also a key. Understanding each other also helps a lot.
I know there are times when I don’t feel my best or most confident but it’s not all the time. (I know I’m not the only one lol) taking a step to trust the guy is always a risk and you’d have to be willing to take it in order for the relationship to work out. There are many girls that a much better looking than me and might have an even better personality than me. 
How do you guys know that you can trust your partner? What makes you trust them back? How you know there isn’t another person involved? How do you guys come back after fighting with each? (Like what is said in the conversation that fixes it?) do you guys treat each other equally? 
These are just my thoughts!! Wonder what you guys got to say. 🤔

Answer

Of course you read horrible cheating stories. Nobody goes online to talk about healthy relationships. For every bad, there are 10 good ones you simply won’t read about.

Answer

If you can’t trust your partner you shouldn’t be with them. If there is mistrust there is a broken relationship waiting to crumble

Answer

This is why I’m getting a divorce currently.
I do not plan on trusting another guy anytime soon. Some very deep healing needs to take place.

Answer

Being in a healthy relationship can mean letting yourself be vulnerable from time to time, and putting your faith in your partner. If there’s scepticism and doubt involved, it normally never ends well. 
You could very well be ready for a relationship but maybe try communicating these feelings and opening up about insecurities. 
Give it your best go and be honest, don’t be scared to trust someone you love out of fear :)
Sometimes things don’t work out for so many different reasons but you’re never gonna find the right partner in life if you never give them a chance! 
You got this x

Answer

I trust him because he consistently always does everything he can to make me happy. He takes time to do all of the little things for me. He makes sure I always know that i’m a permanent part of his life. He shows me just as much trust as I show him 🤷🏼‍♀️

Answer

I just want to say, your fear is valid! I have trust issues in general, but my boyfriend has been so consistently good to me every day for nearly 3 years. 
If I’m insecure, I’m learning how to examine and challenge my anxious thoughts, and I’m just honest with him about it. A lot of times I’ll just say something like “hey, i feel really closed off right now, can we come back to this later?” or even “i feel like it’s hard to trust anything right now, let’s circle back”
I’m in therapy working on my issues and projections that i bring to relationships. And the biggest advice i have is to find a safe person and learn to communicate your fears to them but also to a professional

Answer

Infinity% I trust my husband and he I.
Of course there are stories but that doesn't mean all men and women are shit.
You just know. When I feel down about myself my husband picks me up and makes me feel better and I do the same for him.
We are eachothers world and spend all our time together. Being honest we miss eachother if the other is in another room.
No other couples are not a lot like us.
When you meet the right person you will know you can trust them.
Try not get in your own head so much.
Stories should be just that to you.
If you haven't been in a relationship that may be why you have trust issues and it really sounds like you do. No offense.
You just know!. 
Good luck!. :).

Answer

I've been with my husband for 24 years. I trust him completely. He's a good man. He loves me, supports me, and respects me. And I do the same for him. Together we are raising 3 incredible boys. I have no doubt that we will always be stronger together.

Answer

Your partner will show you who they are day in and day out you just have to be paying attention. They will prove there trust by how they treat you everyday even in those tough situations, you will feel comfort in them knowing they are there for you. 
Also you never really know, you have to be willing to take that chance, if someone is going to cheat they are going to cheat no matter what so why get hung up on the what if’s? Unless you notice red flags there’s no reason to not trust them. Like someone else said, vulnerability is a huge part of being in a relationship.

Answer

Hes never given me a reason not to, always been transparent.  Yes we argue, after we calm down ( usually 2 or 3 days) whoever was in the wrong apologizes and we move on.

Do you trust your partner or not

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products