Questions for mamas

Not sure if there will be mixed answers. I was curious to know if you think its a issue if your boyfriend or spouse would bath baby boy or girl or do you prefer to do it yourself? My mom always raised me to think that the women should always do it because you cant trust men. But ive always thought why would i be with someone i dont trust? I know there’s weird people out there but I definitely disagree with her on this one. What do you personally do? No bashing on here!!