Starting #2 talk

Last night I casually bought up baby number 2. My husband is a little hesitant now since our first is having so heart issues. So I wanted to start warming up the idea. Ideally I'd like to start trying late summer / early fall of 2022 for a spring / summer 2023 babe making around a 3 year age gap.

My husband seems to think he will be too old then and we should try sooner....

He will be 33 this summer

I just turned 28.

I dont think 35 is too old, especially for a guy!

I think the root of his thinking hell be too old is the fact his mom had him at 20 and his brother at 22 and his dad was 24/26.

Anyone do a 2 year spacing and regret it? I should add I work full time and our mothers / sil come to our house to watch our baby.

I also havent gotten my period back and do want to breast feed until 18 months