Is sexual desire to you a intense urge to fuck or a more subtle feeling of arousal?

Question

I meet guys casually cause it’s hard to find men that want a relationship. I get aroused around them and it feels super nice but when it comes to sex, I don’t get a big urge to fuck. It’s just an aroused feeling and I kinda get nervous and lose it. Then sex doesn’t really feel like anything and I’m scared I’m not normal. I’ve never been with anyone that I’m super super attracted to. 
What does sexual desire feel like to you??

Answer

I've had both experiences many times. It just depends. 
Perhaps you need something else to feel stronger attraction/desire?
It seems like my respect for the person I'm with turns me on most, in addition to their body... but if it's just body I get bored & probably won't be that interested. It also depends on how they approach sex. If I don't feel connected to them, emotionally, intellectually and sexually, I'm just not even going to have fun with them in bed, probably long before getting there tbh. (Some people feel very distant during sex even if you were connecting before too- I hate that.) 
So, it may be that you are meeting for more casual encounters but not finding that very hot? Perhaps you don't really like these people that much? 
It could also be your normal feeling too. It's hard to say, because everyone is really different when it comes to desire,  and you might have to get to know yourself here to see what you need to feel more intense & passionate.

Answer

Usually a more subtle feeling. Unless I'm ovulating, then yeah.. option A.

Is sexual desire to you a intense urge to fuck or a more subtle feeling of arousal?

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