Hi, i’m 31 weeks pregnant at the moment.. i’m a first time teen mom & i currently live at my moms house. My parents are split up & have both been with their new partners for the past 12/13 years. Since first finding out i was pregnant my dad has said i have to run my baby around to see his mom (my grandmother) a few days after i give birth (keep in mind i don’t really speak to his mom as she’s toxic & we both dislike each other & always have since i was a young age). I have always said ‘no i will not be running my baby around to see anyone, anyone who wants to see the baby can come & see us’, as i feel like why would i run my baby to see her when she’s been nothing but a cow to me my whole life? she couldn’t even make the effort to congratulate me on falling pregnant. Now as my due date is getting closer my dad has all of a sudden started saying that his girlfriend (my step-mom) is uncomfortable coming & seeing the baby at my house & she’s refusing to do so which means my little siblings won’t be able to meet my baby either unless i run the baby around to meet everyone. So he is now suggesting that i organise for the day after i get out of hospital to bring the baby to his & my step moms house & everyone can come meet my baby there.. I know his girlfriend is only being spiteful & he is going along with it so that way i have no other option but to take the baby around to meet his mother. Which as i have stated i don’t want to be running my baby around anywhere especially as i’m a first time teen mom who’ll only just be learning how to be a mom, my baby will be born in winter & i just don’t want to have to be rushing around everywhere right after i get out of hospital especially not to meet toxic family members who i myself do not even like.

my dad is very narcissistic & has done nothing but cause me stress my WHOLE pregnancy, he is like a child in a mans body & i feel like i am genuinely talking to a highschooler, if he doesn’t get what he wants or if i disagree with what he says/does then he loses his shit & becomes very verbally abusive. I was just wondering what would everyone do in my situation? i’m genuinely just contemplating to just take the baby there so i don’t have to deal with or listen to his shit but at the same time i feel like no he should listen to my wishes, this is my baby & a time that should be so happy for me yet as always my dad is making me dread it/anxious about it as i know he’ll carry on & i just really don’t want to have to deal with that🤦🏻‍♀️