Online dating is a load of crap

I have a decent bio and selection of nice photos, some dressy ones and others very natural.

I have no problem getting dates. The dates are often very fun, and with some guys I feel a connection, have banter, they ask me on future dates, I know a good date when I see one

And then they just disappear and come back at a later date. It really upsets me, these guys are even lovely with nice personalities . It’s like everyone’s spoilt with too much choice on dating apps and can’t commit to the one person , I use the paid sites too :(