Let me say that we have sex every time we’re together, but it’s rarely good for me... Yesterday I mentioned that I wanted it harder and rougher in the future, and he said that sounds good but he “doesn’t have the energy for it.” Which sucks for me. I’ve been very honest about wanting to be dominated (nothing “extreme” just verbal, light bondage, spanking, etc.) in order for me to enjoy it. Just not sure where to go from here or what to even say to him. And this isn’t the first time he’s mentioned not wanting to put as much “work” into sex, he even told me he wants me to be on top more so he doesn’t have to do as much...is this typical? This is the first guy I’ve had sex with so I have nothing to compare it to 😕