Tinder tips

So I want to get back out there but I don’t think a serious relationship is right at the moment. I mainly just want sex. But I’m not a hookup type. I had a fwb for a short time. It was great because he treated me like an actual friend and let me take my time since I was a virgin. Now it’s years later but I’m scared that I won’t get that same thing from a fwb. I just want the talking and sex without being tied down at the moment. However I’m not completely dismissing a relationship. If it’s a good guy then I wouldn’t mind taking the time to get to know him.

So my issue is what do I say when a guy asks what I’m looking for? Cuz I’m not completely sure