Where is the line?

Rebecca
At what point are you bi? I feel like for women the lines are so blurred. I alway see, I'm straight but... I like to kiss girls/ I like lesbian porn/I want to have a threesome with another woman, and so on. At that point aren't you bi, with the intention of settling down with a man? I'm strong attracted to girls but am married and would never act on my attraction the women (even though my husband "just wants to watch") Am I bi? I have no clue. I feel like most ladies out their are slightly bi. What are your thoughts and opinions?