I need to vent

I need to vent. So I have a history of preeclampsia, placenta abruption, and had my daughter at 36 weeks.

Now I am 31w2d. I received the shots at 28-29 weeks due to my BP rising, headaches, and vision changes. My protein isn’t over 300 (it’s 117). They diagnosed me with gestational hypertension and told me I’d deliver at 37 weeks. My BP ranges from 120/80s to 150/90s. They told me to contact them if 140/90 and go to L&D if over 160/110. I can’t go on any meds other than baby aspirin because I still have good days with good blood pressure and they don’t want me to bottom out. Okay, cool we have a plan. I contacted my primary OB today and told him about my BP on the rise again (I have to monitor it,

Log it, and seen weekly). He was like “oh it looks like you’re developing gestational hypertension and we should consider to deliver at 37 weeks”

LIKE WTF, we and his partners have already discussed that weeks ago and said I was diagnosed and that was the plan. Now I’m confused. It’s also in my notes on my records. I’m so irritated, like do they not communicate or listen?

I’m the beginning I was set to have a repeat c section at 39 weeks and they said they’ll put me on the books when I’m 32/34 weeks.. well now if at 37 that’s little over 5 weeks away..

They know I need a two week notice so my mother can quarantine before coming to watch my daughter (my husband is military so we have to plan it) and he said that’s perfectly fine and we’ll have that two week notice. Am I wrong for asking when I can get put in the books already?