Boyfriend has never touched my vagina 😫

So my SO and I have been together two years, living together one year. I love him so much and we have a great relationship, but I just feel like I desire more in the sex department. We only have vaginal sex. He has never went down on me or fingered me/teased me with his hands. And that's literally my favorite part of sex. 😅 We don't even make out anymore. I've had this conversation with him multiple times over the past several months and he always says he just doesn't like any of that stuff at all. Which I feel like is not all that fair because sucking dick isn't always fun either lmao. He says he'll try to do better by being more interactive with me during sex, but nothing ever changes. I feel terrible posting this because I respect his feelings about it, I'm just craving more of him. 😔