Hello! I am hoping this is appropriate to post in this group.

I have 2 close best friends. Myself and one friend are already married. Our last friend got engaged last year and due to Covid have pushed their wedding from 2021 to now May 2022 and I don’t blame her at all! However, my husband and I planned to start trying for a family this year because we have a goal to have 2 children by the time we turn 30, and I am currently 27. We originally knew her wedding was 2021 so we pushed off trying to convince until this year, plus to allow us to enjoy our first year of marriage. Now my other friend already had a baby who will be 2 by the time our last friend gets married. I’ve done the calculations that if we are blessed to get pregnant soon, that we will have our baby 2-3 months before her wedding. I guess I am looking to see if you were the bride in this situation, how would you feel if your friend gets pregnant while this is the last wedding festivities in your friend group. We all want to go all out and have fun celebrating, but I also don’t want to push back at least another year of trying. And if we try now, I know I won’t be pregnant at her wedding. My friend gets super sensitive so I just don’t know how to bring this up without hurting her feelings and making her feel not the center of attention as being our last engaged friend. Please send your thoughts!