This morning was a typical morning... I’m military so I work a different type of schedule and recently my hours have change (extended 1 hour)...so anyway my wife and I have 2 kids that are morning people and wake us up daily. Well this morning I had to go in at 1000. So I did not set an alarm because I knew our kids would wake me at least 2 hours prior. My wife did not know that so she wakes up at around 0750 ish and she asked me “babe did you set an alarm” I wake up and say “no I don’t have to be I’m till 1000” at the same time I glance at the clock to make sure I’m good on time that’s how i know what time she woke up. We lay there a little while and sit up. And start to check our phones as we always do .I notice outside of our house a neighbor is having a yard sale so I go to my sons room to take a look. I come back to the room get in the bed and turn on the mtv music channel my wife doesn’t like the artist so she get up and goes to shower. With her phone in hand now the time is around 0802 she uses the restroom and all that then get in the shower with her phone in the bathroom. All the while I’m making the bed, folding blankets, and take dirty clothes to the laundry room when I finish all that I sit in the bed grab my phone and to my surprise there is a message from my wife for 0807 and the time is now 0822. The message I received was “what’s done I’m the dark will come to light ‼️ have a blessed day”. I replied “??” Then I had the bathroom to ask what she meant by it at the same time she was on the way out so I ask her about the message and she says she knows nothing about that they she didn’t type or send it so I say well who did and after a few minutes of back and forward I ask her “ so who was the message intended for” she literally flips tf out cussing my out and calling me all the names and say she didn’t send it. I get in the shower while still arguing and she come and starts hitting me calling me all these names. That whatever here’s where it get crazy the turn and tells me that I am the on that sent the message from her phone in order to sabotage our relationship and says that this is my way out PS. I DO NOT KNOW HER PASSWORD at all. So I ask her how would I even do that she’s says” I don’t know but you are the one who sent the message” I ask my 3 year old son if I went in the the bathroom and he says yes why he said yes I have no idea why because He was literally following me around as I made the bed and took clothes to the laundry room. So that what she used to convince her mom and people on glow that I was gaslighting her and all this and that but I do not even have the password to her phone because we are working on trust please help me make since of this.