Our sex life...

I’m going to try and make a long story short.

I’m really struggling with mine and my boyfriends sex life. I’ve been pretty unhappy with it for some time now. I’ve tried to talk to him about it on several occasions- nothing ever changes.

We used to have amazing sex, at least three times a day. Now we can go days without. This started back in January when I found out I was pregnant. We definitely went through a rough patch after finding out I was pregnant. Not only is frequency an issue for me but I feel like quality has diminished as well. He told me my bad mood is what turned him off. Although his lack of attention/ affection was the main cause of my moods ( and probably hormones). I heard him, I worked on being happier and more positive.

Since that last discussion. We’ve been doing really well! No moodiness, bickering or fighting. We are having sex a bit more frequently but still not as much as I’d like. And it’s still fairly mediocre at best. His ‘mission’ used to be making me cum multiple times. Now I hardly cum at all. He says ‘I guess I just don’t do it for you anymore’. We used to have sex for long periods of time- now I’m lucky to get 15 minutes out of him. That makes it hard for me to finish.

He also loves getting blow jobs and I love giving them- so he gets them almost everyday. I’ve been asking for oral- among other things I’d like- it never happens.

I’m feeling very frustrated but also very sad. Not sure what to do anymore.